As someone who has endured more than my fair share of experiences, both positive and negative, throughout my four years here at Buckeye High, I have taken it upon myself to condense all the things I have learned into one article for my reader’s pleasure. These are just a few of the most imperative points that students should definitely pick up before departing from high school and entering the “real world.”
First of all, high school, not just this one, but in general, is breeding grounds for judgement. First impressions, unique styles, different interests, certain mindsets, various skills, etc. These people will judge you for every little thing you do, and there is not one thing anyone can do about it. As cliche as this advice is, just be yourself. People may be a little cautious at first, but they’ll soon develop a deep respect for your ability to stay true and neglect to be concerned with the opinion others have of you. Caring about things that most people don’t acknowledge makes you interesting, and that makes you stand out. Good publicity, bad publicity, whatever. Nobody wants to just blend in throughout high school. Make a statement while you’re here, create something, express your opinion, start a trend, introduce an overlooked activity. Whatever you do, just be bold and don’t stop and wonder what anyone thinks as long as you are pleased with yourself.
Secondly, go to the dances. I don’t care if so-and-so said that they are “lame” or if you don’t have a date, just go. You’ll only regret not going, trust me. Once the instagram activity starts picking up and you’re alone at home watching the news feed grow longer with photos of your peers all done up, you’ll wish you were there. If you go and it isn’t up to par, you are allowed to leave. At least you tried, and most likely got some nice pictures out of it. And who knows, maybe it will be everything that you imagined. Dances are a traditional part of one’s high school experience and it would be a shame to miss out! Plus, student council works pretty hard planning and setting up, so just go to the school dances.
Another thing I’ve learned during my stay here at Buckeye is that social media is essential, but deadly. Nowadays, teachers have twitter pages where they “tweet” the homework and websites for examples of problems. People use social media to stay “in the loop” and to be notified of what theme whichever sporting event everyone is attending is that night, which is convenient when you just can’t remember if it’s a blackout or strictly beach attire. It can be really handy, but also very dangerous. Some kids these days take it too far. When someone walks in the cafeteria, they won’t see someone getting beat up or a bully taking someone’s lunch money; they’ll see kids looking down at their phones furiously typing with their thumbs. That’s where the torment takes place in high school; online. My advice would be to steer clear of all of that, because high school is hard enough as it is, it’s only harder when it gives people the ability to torture someone behind the screen of a phone. The “likes” and “retweets” just aren’t worth it. Trust me.
One of the most important things someone can do while at school, and you can quote me on this, is pay attention in math class. and, if you hate school and don’t pay attention in any subject, at least pay attention in math. Whether you’re in Algebra, Geometry, Calculus, Trigonometry, I don't care, just pay attention in math class. If you fall asleep or have something on your mind and for whatever reason zone out during your math period, you’re automatically behind like five chapters somehow, it’s crazy. Math is insane nowadays, the teachers have you using numbers to find letters and there’s continuous decimals named after pastries… I have no idea who invented this stuff, but I’ll bet he didn’t even understand it. Sometimes I suspect they’re just making stuff up to kill time, but then it shows up on the test. Take my word for it There’s always that one kid that poses the question aloud that everyone is thinking: When are we ever going to use this? Well, I’ll tell you when you're going to use it. Now. In class. On the test Friday. Regardless if you ever use this outside of school which, depending on your desired field of study, you may not, every student needs a certain amount of math credits to graduate, so you’re using it now. I'll say this one more time for emphasis; Pay attention in math class, kids.
High school is where people begin to find themselves. Students of both genders undergo many changes throughout these imperative four years. In high school, we’re all in high school. That’s it. No one is better than the other. The only problem is that not everyone sees it that way. Girls are ruthlessly mean and boys are incredibly immature. That’s not a proven fact, but an accurate statement. Girls will be nice to you one minute and then flip a switch and become your worst enemy the next. Boys will be polite when they feel it's necessary and when they don’t they’ll be rude. The way people treat each other in high school is very sad, but it’s something everyone has to endure. There’s always going to be someone who just doesn’t like you, and that’s okay, you’re not going to get along with everyone in life, and if you do then you probably have no personality. Just keep in mind that you are not defined by other people’s opinions of you, and that jealousy in not an appropriate reason to dislike someone. Take that advice and you’ll be okay.
Another really important thing everyone should know before they graduate high school is that a starfish is NOT a fish. I know that may sound silly, but it’s really important to know that. The word “fish” is literally in the name, but that’s just false advertisement. A starfish is not a fish! I still can't believe it. You’ll all thank me for this one day, and if not then I apologise for taking up thirty seconds of your life that you used to read this paragraph. For me, I wish someone else had told me this before I entered high school. I had to learn the hard way. Although this may seem like common sense to some people, to those of us who are not very talented in the subject of science, this came as quite a shock! One year I took a class called Invertebrate and Vertebrate, taught by Mr. Koeth (it is a very fascinating class, I would highly recommend anyone take it if they are interested in science or just want that last science credit without taking chemistry). Anyway, he assigned a project where we had to do a report on a fish. Easy peasy I thought to myself, right? Wrong. I so uncharacteristically procrastinated until the last moment to chose a fish that no one else in the class has picked to do their reports on yet, and to my excitement, no one had chosen to do the starfish yet. After presenting my report and awaiting a final grade I finally received my project back with a note that said that I did a lovely job, except for the fact that I didn't do my report on a fish. I failed that project. That is how I learned that a starfish is not a fish. So, if you did know that already, good, you’re one step ahead where I was, and if you didn’t, well, you're welcome.
Another important thing to know when attempting to survive high school is that friends come and go, and often times if they go, they come back. Everyone loves and hates each other, it’s an oddly unhealthy cycle of emotions, but everyone goes through it. I bet you believe that the person who you are the closest to now will remain your best friend from when you begin freshman year to when you graduate senior year, right? Wrong again! From the moment you step foot into Buckeye High School everyone has a new best friend, which, depending on the first letter of your last name, could be one of two people. Throughout high school, your guidance counselor is your best friend, without a doubt. Their job is to make sure you get in, survive, maybe even excel, and get out. They will do anything in their power to help you through any obstacle you face during high school. They are available almost always, and are there for you regardless of everything. Your guidance counselor is definitely your best friend in high school.
Lastly, and probably most importantly, what I have learned while attending high school is that high school doesn’t really matter. Of course, education is key and learning is an incredible luxury, but high school really doesn’t matter. Right now, the most stressful things on your mind are most likely a mixture of what you’re wearing tomorrow, how long of a nap you can take depending on the amount of homework assigned, and who you’re going to prom with. Everything that is important now will not be significant at all in a couple years, and it is important that you know that before graduating because then you will be able to focus all your time and energy on what really matters. Whether it is getting accepted into your dream college, finding a job, saving money, or whatever it may be, your future is the most important thing to you, regardless of who commented what on whose instagram photo, and it is imperative that by the time you are graduated you realize that.
There are a thousand more things we are taught during high school, but I hope this small list helped you even the slightest bit. You are welcome to save a copy and refer back to whenever you begin to lose sight of your purpose here. Good luck to everyone, whether you just got here and are loving it, anxious to become an upper classman, excited to be a senior, or cannot wait to graduate. High school is a major yet small part of life that everyone is required to experience, and with these tips your high school experience will fly by smoother than anyone could have ever imagined.